Sunday, August 25, 2013

Nothing Special

Grand Island
August 2013
Page 2


Kellisa has been through 36 U.S. airports and I can assure you that Detroit’s airport is by far the most difficult to navigate through with a wheelchair and baggage. We arrived on time and headed towards baggage claim to get our checked baggage (which was quite a load since I had Kellisa’s Freedom Mobility Chair, travel wheelchair, luggage and all of our backpacking gear). Next, we headed for the rental car bus pick-up area. Leaving the baggage claim area, we struggled to fit on an elevator to go up one floor. A huge thank you to the gentleman, who had his own young family to navigate through the airport, for helping to hold the elevator door open as we boarded even though there wouldn’t be enough room for his family.


After the elevator ride, we made a few turns, walked across a skywalk, made a couple more turns and rode another elevator down to the same level we just left minutes before. Once we were back on ground level, we made a slight turn, squeezed through sliding glass doors and proceeded to the location of our rental car company’s bus pick-up area. We were probably less than a hundred yards from the baggage claim area, but it’s not connected and that’s why we had to take make so many turns and ride two elevators.

Our bus pulls up and Kellisa bends over with excited anticipation. Kellisa loves riding on a bus because it’s usually a bumpy, noisy ride. The bus that pulled up in front of us had a wheelchair lift which only increases the excitement. Kellisa did her usual curling her head between her knees as she giggled and struggled not to hyperventilate.

The bus driver was a friendly lady in her late 40’s to early 50’s that seemed genuinely happy to be at her job. While she was lifting a row of seats to make room for the wheelchair, she paid me the following compliments: “thank you for restoring my faith in men and fathers, there’s still hope”. I didn’t ask for details, but figured she had been burned at some point in her life.

The bus driver went out of her way to drop us off as close as possible to our SUV and helped with our small mountain of gear. As I thanked her and gave her a tip, she again thanked me for making her day and she told me how “special” Kellisa was. It made me feel good all the way around even though I always feel awkward when people think I’m doing something special.

I don’t do anything different for Kellisa because she can’t physically do things herself. We do what she likes; it just looks different because I have to be her arms, legs and back. Helping your daughter have fun is a father’s responsibility, it’s nothing special. I guess it’s an unexpected sight to some. It makes me sad and motivates me to spread Kellisa’s story that we never see other disabled kids in the outdoors, but I’m sure there are many “able bodied” kids that don’t get the chance either. We’d still be visiting Grand Island if she was a physically functioning 14 year old who loved outdoor adventures.


With the SUV loaded, I set the GPS to Ashland, OH and started our long drive.

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